approaching therapy

musings as they come, and as they evolve …

once a week

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Some therapists insist that folks come once a week.
Good reasons, too.
To keep momentum.
To stay involved and effective.

But I’m for whatever works.

But I’m noticing that sometimes if people don’t come once a week, then progress isn’t made.
It’s more about fire extinguishing.

If a couple can’t make it once a week because they are too busy, then that might be a part of the problem — or challenge.

They are too busy to nurture their relationship?
And yet they are hoping that things will change someday, somehow.

Yes, things will change, no matter what you do.
But they might not change in the way you might be hoping.
I think it really helps to water the relationship.

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Written by David

October 11th, 2010 at 10:05 pm

Posted in couples

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