The Missing Experience

you are right – your partner is wrong

Are you wanting to be right?
Are you wanting your partner to admit that he or she is wrong?
That’s a good goal when you engage your partner in discussion – if you want to lose the game.

See: The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work, by Terrence Real. New York: Ballantine Books, 2007.

Like everyone, I have different sides. Counselor, photographer, writer, cooker of food – both spicy and plain, and seeker of truth and happiness. I have always taken an interest in the unassuming things that pass us by – both heard and seen, both ordinary and not so ordinary. They are all sacred and beautiful in some way.

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